[30s-40s] Vibe First, Swipe Later - An Offline Conscious Dating Social

Back for its 18th running!

Vibe First, Swipe Later: An intentional social encouraging conscious dating and slow connection through fun activities and conversations.

No bios.

No swiping.

No trying to impress in 5 minutes.

Instead, you’ll move through a series of fun, guided activities and conversations designed to make connecting feel easy again.

Some moments will be light and playful.

Some might surprise you with how natural they feel.

And somewhere in between, you might start to notice:

who you enjoy talking to,

how you show up,

and what connection actually feels like when there’s no pressure attached.

Come for the vibe.

Stay for the conversations you didn’t expect to enjoy.

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Whether you’re looking for new friendships, soulful chemistry, or simply an evening that feels real, this isn’t your usual singles event.

Date: 24 April 2026, Friday (30s - 40s)

Time: 7:30 PM – 9:30 PM

Venue: 195 Pearl's Hill Terrace (Chinatown MRT)

Tickets: $28

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It’s not speed dating.

It’s not matchmaking.

It’s an intentional social to practice conscious dating and slow connection.

🎟️ Only 25-30 spots available — we close sign-ups once we hit gender balance

What to Expect:

• A conscious dating social

• Meet people through guided activities, group conversations and unexpected moments

• Note-passing (drop a message for someone you vibed with)

• A relaxed and cozy vibe in SG's old school art enclave

  
  

Who This Is For:

• singles in from their 30s to 40s

• want to go beyond shallow conversations

• value connection that feels grounded, not rushed

• are open to meeting new people in a different way

• are open to guided conversations, prompts, and a touch of psychology

• are male/female in your mid-20s to 40s

• Read FAQ at the bottom of this page

Vibe First, Swipe Later is an intentional social to practice conscious dating and slow connection. This event is grounded in real-world psychology.

Designed and hosted by So You Socials, the social arm of The Conscious Mind Psychotherapy practice.

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FAQ

How many people will be there? We close ticket sales between 25-35 pax. Tickets are always sold with a close to 50–50 male–female balance. We don’t segment participants by age or other demographic specifics other than the indicated age bracket. Our focus is on creating meaningful, vibe-based connections rather than strict criteria. We ensure a fair mix nonetheless. A match-making service will be more appropriate if you prefer matching based on very specific demographic factors. 

What are their ages? There are two age brackets held monthly. 20s to 30s and 30s to 40s.

I don't know what age group to attend. According to your preference.

Is there food? There isn't. The event starts relatively late into the evening (7.30pm) - kindly have your dinner first.

Is this speed dating? It isn't. If you prefer being matched with specific demographics, a match-making event will suit you better.

What are we going to be doing? Through guided conversations, themed activities, and maybe a few serendipitous moments, you’ll get to meet people who value emotional depth, self-awareness, and safety in connection.

I'm nervous. We strive to be as social-anxiety friendly as possible.

Event policy. Click to view.

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Whatsapp: +65 89599766

www.soyousocials.com